Scheduling Sex Isn’t THAT Bad….If You Do It Right

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By: Eden H

I’m one of those people whose constantly filling their free-time with something because I like being proactive. So when I’m not running around the TV station (YES, your girl DOES have a real job), or tending to the blog, I could either be making these homemade scrubs and body butters, talking junk of the radio show, or catching up with my girls with some MUCH NEEDED margaritas (Milagro tequila of course). And just the way I like to stay busy, you can imagine I’d also prefer any man I’m involved with to be just as proactive. It’s something about that drive that not only turns me on, but motivates me too. 

Being a young professional these days, I think we’ve all been subjected to being a little busier than the people before us…..thus making it THAT much harder to get it in as we would like to. Now, where some people would think that scheduling sex is such a turn off…..done the correct way could get your rocks off right.

Think. Sexting.

But done in a CLASSY ADULT way. 

Who doesn’t like a steamy text during a meeting?

Give a scheduled play by play of how you’re preparing to see him or her in the next hour or (for the out of towners) in the next few days. 

Build up a fantasy around your schedule that way it’s less rigid and more titillating. 

Scheduling sex doesn’t have to sound like a chore but an opportunity to  get creative with the distance between you two.

Explore your options and don’t get mad or mechanical in your schedules. Think of it as another way to keep it spicy. Plus the beauty of scheduling sex is you have time to plan EXTRA show stopping tricks and places to be. It could be a win-win.